In the teenage period, teenage boy or girl with many teenage problems both physical and psychological changes in their body and mind. In this teenage problems, parents and family are actual friends to lead society and community as a natural person. As well as they give the right direction of the teenage child to tackle the radical changes like a teacher also.
Teenagers Mood: The Teenage Problems
- At the age of 13–19, they have realized that they are grown with bodily and mentally.
- Emotion arises in the friendly and romantic relationship, this time they don’t want to share their feelings with family.
- They think that they know well from others and whenever any person want to prove them wrong they can’t accept it. And express the irritable mood.
- When the relationship between father and mother is not good & they make argue in front of the child it consequently affects them. They seem to guilty of this.
Parents Responsibility for teenagers growth in all sphere:
Respect people & community:- Father can give the actual guidelines for respect of other people when his child goes with him. It may be market, school, social programme, attending any developing work.
Mother also can teach her child when they remain with her. They follow the attitude of a mother which she delivered with another person.
Support of every interest and opinion if positive:- When we go to any work related to our family, sometimes we do not give any priority to our junior member of our family. We need to respect any opinion of the teenage child because they are not infant & their brain have some extraordinary idea which can be more important to get any decision.
Parents’ Honesty:- In the age of teen, they can’t realize what is right for them? Sometimes opportunity makes them dishonest but it’s harmful to them. Parents have to remember that they are the best guide when they can show their promise fulfilled. Parents must be kept similarity with giving speech and work. This is the best policy to teach Honesty of their child.
Cooperation with the teenager at home, school, college, & all activities:- Parents have more expectation from their child that is must remain grade level at the school. They need to cooperate their child to make homework, inspiring to perform any knowledgeable contest, like debate, quiz. They also need to qualify all of the cultural programmes arranged by the school, college, & community. Parents can make them mentally strong to attend all of these with confidently.
Unawareness of parents:- Nowadays we notice that technology and digitalization make us developed and communication is possible through many social sites.but this technology has harm to the teenager and its a big teenage problem in this days. The teenagers can get any anti-social, prohibited, curse and the bad thing from such site through the internet.
It is not so easy to enforce a teenage boy or girl. Parents should be careful about the teenage period of their child. If this time boy or girl becomes violent, parents must communicate with their children’s directly and freely.
Some boys or girls can be addicted either to make fun of or influenced any evil companionship (bad friends).
They may be addicted to –
- Sexual attraction.
- Bad Companies
Besides this, parents have to feel what is need of their children? Only their proper counseling may reduce the stress and depression of their child.
Only then they can come back from uncertain life
Family psychologist, DAVID SWANSON says that–
“Kids have plenty of reason to manipulate their parents”
Analysis under all of the discussion we may give some tips as a solution to teenage problems:-
For teenager daily reminds that-
- He/she is excellent.
- His/her positivity is his/her own pleasure.
- He/she can celebrate by his/her individuality.
- He/she can do everything.
- He/she prepared for all success.
- The teenager must be shared with parents all of the problems and parents should give the actual solution.
- So that a child does not become a victim of parents anger.
- Teenagers must be practice a healthy lifestyle which is good for health & career.
- Parents should not fix up about dress up and choose the career of a child.
- Which behavior of a child cannot adjust with family & which attitude cannot accept from parents that must be noticed and take into consideration for conciliation?
- Awareness of committing suicide aspect of religion & inhumane sides parents must be conscious all illness, dirty, hateful, abnormalities activities.
- Parents must be given more time to their child at this time and need to travel out at every weekend.
Finally, Teen has some social contribution also—-
Every generation has more updated history, they always face the new history of world.when any harmful activities come to the society they can overcome it and can conscious about that.
Like as, natural disaster, working the awareness of HIV, Blood donation, the Bad impact of an attempt to suicide etc. through this kind of work the teenager can change the future generation.
They should not be affected by any bad companions & bad habit. in a word, a group of the teen can make a good life for another teen.